The One Killer Tactic In Getting A Woman To Fall Head Over Heels For You

By Derek Rake

It's very tricky to make a girl feel attracted to you. Men often don't know what each girl is looking for in a partner. Is it looks, money, or your car? Obviously, you can't just march up to a girl and ask her what she wants in a man. Chances are if you actually do go to a girl and ask her that, she will blow you out of the water. You will just come across as a needy guy who is desperately trying to get laid.

Here is what a woman wants in a man. She wants someone who is confident and knows exactly what she wants even though she might not know that herself. Get it? If you don't, read the preceding sentence a few more times.

So now you know that in order to win a girl's affections, a guy will need to transform from being a needy loser to someone who exudes charisma and confidence without being arrogant or desperate. Easy to be said than done, surely. Don't fret as I will give you some hints on how to make that transformation.
Here is how you do it. By applying some tried and true principles of psychology, you will be able to seduce any woman you want. This is applicable not only in seduction of women, but also in any social situation in general when you want to convince someone to see things from your point of view.

I am going to share with you a technique in psychology which is called the 'constraint of choices'. For example, if your target is presented only with one choice, she will be hard-pressed to agree to that choice. However, if she is presented with two or three choices, she will think that she has got options, and will gladly choose one of the options that you give her.

So how do you use this when you talk to women? Simple. Let's say you approached a woman and want to ask her of her email address. If you say, "Can you give me your email address?", then you risk of getting rejected, simply because you give her the option of rejecting you.
Rather, apply the "choice constraints" principle and say, "Very nice talking to you. Shall we exchange email addresses or arrange for a drink this Saturday?" This way, she will choose between the two, and either choices is a winner for you.

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