Attracting Women - How To Get Her Interested and Attracted Immediately

By Leon Gold

Can you seduce women instantly? If not I'll give you a USEFUL lesson so that you can INTEREST and ATTRACT any women, immediately. There's a big secret at the end of this article so make sure you don't miss it...

There are certain behaviour and personality traits that women look out for in men when they first begin to interact with you. You're immediately being tested by her mostly subconscious ATTRACTION-RADAR...

It's your job to pass her tests, and so get her interested in and attracted to you. So what is she testing you for?

1. That you're not NEEDY and WIMPY. These are big attraction killers and ones you need to avoid. Don't appear like you need her approval. If she tells you she likes a band that you hate, don't agree that you love them to just to seek her approval.

This is a simple matter of maintaining your integrity, and a lot of average guys fail to do so, and instead automatically worship every woman they are attracted to, hypnotized into kissing up to them. Women notice this instantly and HATE IT. So don't do it, and you will pass this test.

2. That your not boring and predictable. Girls find this very unattractive in men. They want a man in their life who will entertain them and provide them with an unpredictable wild ride of an experience. They don't want anyone who is boring, has nothing of real interest to say, or just says things that are predictable - that a 100 other guys have said to them in the last month. So be original, interesting, light hearted and fun. These are surefire ways to trigger attraction.

3. That you know how to communicate on a sexual level. Here you simply must know the subtle forms of body language and other secret communication that heightens sexual tension. This is the big secret to creating attraction, and you can do it EVERYTIME successfully once you know how. The results of which are life changing

Once you know what a woman finds interesting and how attraction works you can instantly make girls want to be with you. Just use my advice.

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Law of Attraction and How It Always Comes Back to You

By Beth Mccain

When applying the Law of Attraction, it always comes back to you and your perception. Everything and everyone you encounter in your life, you have intentionally or unintentionally attracted into your world.

You may be saying to yourself, "There is no way that I attracted that mean old man who yelled at me for passing him on the road." Believe it or not, at some time you produced an emotion that attracted that experience to you. And it didn't take just one thought and one feeling to cause the experience to attract to you. It came from a repetitious thought and feeling over time.

Everything that comes into your world is always attracted from a thought and feeling that you are possessing or have possessed.

When you experience a day when everyone seems to mirror the same kind of mood, whether crabby or happy, frustrated or serene, take a look at yourself. People who are in your life whether for just a moment or everyday, are a reflection of what or who you are attracting. All that we are, in fact, is a direct result of what we have thought.

Is there any control over where our lives are lead through the Law of Attraction? Yes, there is. Begin to take responsibility for your life. Realize that you have created everything that is in your life, and that it is just as easy to create a life that you want.

By looking at what is around you, you are able to tell what direction you are headed through the people that come into your life, and by how you react to them. You can also tell which direction you are headed by the situations that seem to be attracting to you as well.

Let's say you have been maintaining a clear image of a fulfilling relationship. During your visualization time you continually get interrupted by some negative feelings and thoughts of your old flame, and his or her bad habits, but you continue to visualize.

The next week you discover your e-dating service connects someone who is interested in meeting you. So you hook up the date and you go and meet him/her. Ten minutes into the date you realize that she/he is just like your old flame.

Now this is pretty obvious. By what you are attracting you are not heading in the right direction. Sure, you were visualizing clearly but with muddled feelings of an old relationship thrown into the stew pot. The Universe is letting you know that you are attracting what you are thinking and feeling and this is what you are attracting. The great thing about this scenario is that you receive a clear indicator that you want to build some better feelings and thoughts for your clear image.

Be aware of what the Universe is telling you and indicating to you and adjust your thoughts and feelings accordingly. Every incident, every person, every circumstance all comes back to you.
Take your clear image and create clearer, more wonderful feelings to go with that image. When you leave behind all the past events and people that have had a negative pull on your life, you will attract people free of that negative pull. But you must first start with yourself. Take inventory of what feelings and thoughts you want as much as the ones you don't, and stick to a clear image. Then take notes from the Universe when it shows you that you have attracted something you don't want.

Become clearer in your image and feelings of what you do want. You can't go wrong if you listen and see the indicators that the Universe gives as it steers you to where you want to be. The Law of Attraction never fails.

Beth McCain is a full time instructor and lecturer in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. Beth and her husband, Lee, have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. Please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Site

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The Law of Attraction Made Easy

By Tim Buist

Inevitably when people learn of the law of attraction for the first time, two things often happen.
One, they learn several different takes on the fundamentals of how to use the law of attraction, and before long they are confused and a bit overwhelmed at how many things they must "think" about, or practice to get it right. Or two, they read a brief overview of the premise and miss the most important aspect of the law, then wonder why it doesn't seem to work for them.

Actually, it can be made easy, if you are focused on the core concept and learn to master it. As they say practice makes perfect, and it's no different here. So here is the whole lesson, and not in a nutshell, I really mean the whole lesson!

Whatever you feel, you attract.
Did you get that? That's all. It does not need to made any more complicated than that. That is the core point, so focusing on all the points around this point, can lead to frustration. If you want to study the topic more, there are tips and tricks you can learn to feel the way necessary for attracting what you want.

What about your thoughts?
Do your thoughts impact what you feel? Certainly. Do your beliefs impact your thoughts and vice versa? Sure do. So you can knock yourself out learning about how to master your thoughts...but don't lose sight of the crux of the entire law of attraction. You are a universal, energized being that sends out vibrations, based on what we call "feelings" in this existence. What you feel is truly up to you. It sounds easy, and it is. But only when you absolutely accept and believe, in other words - truly know, that your thoughts determine what you feel. It was a thought that put you here in the first place. If you didn't first think about coming to this place called Earth with all its wonders, you would not be here. You created it, the moment you thought it. Of course this was at a time when you were a non-physical being, and thoughts were instantaneously your reality. But now that you have dreamed up this place with space and time, you have a buffer between the initial thought and the manifestation here. Good thing too, we all have thoughts every day, which if were made to be instant reality...look out!

It always comes back to how you feel.

So getting back to the purpose of this article...your thoughts create feelings, your feelings create magnetic vibrations to attract like-thoughts and feelings, and since it is your mind that creates your experience in the first place...it is law that your experience will indeed become that of your thoughts.

So if it's really your thoughts that create your life, why do I say that it's your feelings that determine what you attract. Well, try to monitor your thoughts for just one hour...every thought you have. Yeah right! If you can do this, congratulations...but as the law of attraction states...creation can (and should!) be effortless, that's why your "bigger", wiser self, created feelings, or emotion to guide you.

So what are you thinking right now? Well, it's simple, how do you feel right now? Are you relaxed, joyful, excited, engaged, or peaceful? You can name any number of feelings but they can all be classified as good, or bad. I will not go into the bad list, for that would not serve those that want to focus on good thoughts, to create good feelings...but you know what the not-so-good ones are. And if your thoughts are not in agreement with what the real you wants, you'll be getting those bad feelings...and the law of attraction works just the same for all feelings, bad or good.

Conclusion
So in conclusion, there is much that you can study to help master the law of attraction and become more knowledgeable on the subject...if that's your goal. But, if your goal is only to master the law, it is as easy as feeling what you want. Expect it, believe it, and act as if it already is reality...because if you feel that way....it IS reality! Soon, your physical environment will come to resemble the way you feel...to come into line with reality (which is your thoughts and feelings). Most folks go through life trying to do exactly the opposite...working on their life situation in the hopes it will make them feel they way they want.

So there you have it...now go start feeling the life of your wildest dreams!

Tim Buist is a student of the law of attraction among other spiritual quests to support the new age of consciousness. Broaden your knowledge of the law of attraction by visiting: http://learn-law-of-attraction.blogspot.com/

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The Law of Attraction and You

By Gary Evans

You are a perfect being, capable of being, doing and having anything that you can conceive. You are the creator of your own reality and the basis of this creative haven is the Law of Attraction. There are no boundaries or limitations as to what you are capable of, so why do we sometimes limit ourselves and our potential?

When we observe the world around us, one may see lots of fear, worry and powerlessness. Whether your particular struggle is financial, emotional, security, addiction, or whatever else, there are a lot of people struggling with something or another. If you're not, then you're way ahead of the pack!

The Law of Attraction has one job and one job only - to match things together. Whatever you place your attention upon in that moment you are drawing more of it to you.

As you observe the debt, as you observe the broken car, as you observe the small uncomfortable home, as you observe the lack of anything unwanted, it is in those moments that you are bringing more of it to you. The Law of Attraction does not hear or understand our language, it only understands our vibration. When you feel good you vibrate good feelings, when you feel bad you vibrate bad feelings. The Law of Attraction is hearing those vibrational feelings and responding to them, always.

Would you like to know what vibration you are currently putting out to the universe? Well take a look around you. Open your wallet. Jump inside your car. Is it wanted or unwanted? If it is unwanted then you still have work to do.

Until you take full responsibility for your life and your circumstances, you have no power to change anything. Give more focus on the things you already have that you enjoy, and give less focus and energy to the things in your life that are stressful. Just a tiny shift in the balance, maintained each day, will quickly begin to turn the tides in your favor.

This isn't hard work! It just takes repetition and a decision that feeling good means something to you. And the best part about all of this is that you are in the perfect place to begin right now.
You only have "now" and so you should start practicing feeling good about something "now".

The more lighthearted, content and stress-free you feel, the more will be granted to you. As you begin to release resistance about those things that are wrong, bad and unwanted and start shifting your attention onto those things that are wanted you will find that the "wrong" things begin to fade away and you will receive more of the things that you enjoy.

This subtle shift in mindset is perhaps the most difficult thing for us to do, as it is breaking a mental habit we have kept for years and in some cases decades!

If you observe the good things beginning to flow effortlessly into your experience then that is your true breakthrough moment and will help you to build on the work you've already done.
Imagine a huge stone boulder rolling along a road... It has momentum. If you start pushing on the boulder from the other side, it doesn't immediately do what you want. You have to slow the boulder down until it eventually halts so you can start pushing it in the right direction. Then it will begin to roll slowly in the other direction.

Just wait until the boulder starts building speed! That breakthrough moment will lead to better and better times until one day you will notice that your life has taken on an entirely different characteristic. Endless experiences of prosperity, peace, happiness, love and joy will be your proclivity.

To one who is moving in a positive direction, things will only accelerate more and more in the positive direction. To one moving in a negative direction, which many of us are, things will only get worse. Begin to change your habits of focusing on the negative and focus more on the positive; have gratitude and truly feel grateful for the things you do have, and more - much more - will be given to you.

Gary Evans is a Law of Attraction practitioner, author and owner of the company Good To Feel Good. Gary is dedicated to helping you attract anything you desire through successful application of the Law of Attraction.Get your free copy of Gary's 7 Proven Steps To Success e-course by visiting: http://www.7ProvenStepsToSuccess.com

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Push Pins and the Law of Attraction

By Michael Losier

So what makes a good Law of Attraction tool? That's easy. One that makes you give your attention, energy and focus towards your desires in a positive way.

In the last few years I have had the opportunity to travel worldwide delivering Law of Attraction seminars to thousands of people. Given that I am a visual person (someone that likes to 'see' things); I wanted to be able to 'view' my travels at-a-glance. I got the idea on one of my 12 hour flights while browsing through an in-flight catalogue, when wham! - I saw it. I found what I could do to document my travels - get a large world map and use coloured flag push pins.
I got excited about this idea of being able to use flag push pins on a map to show where I have been. This was going to be fun.

The next day after arriving home from traveling, I decided to visit my barber, who unfortunately was not available, as they were renovating their shop that day. I decided to go to another barber and found a small little shop in Victoria that I had not been to before. I was waiting with all the other customers in the reception area, when this happy, positive barber peeks around the corner of his little stall, and says "Who's next?" Well, it was me, so I got up, walked over to his small cubicle and took a seat. He spins the chair around and guess what I see?
In front of me is a large world map, full of hundreds of push pins, showing all the countries his customers have come from. That was so Law of Attraction that I laughed with delight as I was seeing evidence manifesting that which I just gave attention to the day before.

The same day, I go to a stationery store and purchase a huge world map and three packages of push pins shaped liked flags in red, green and yellow.

I set up the world map in my office and began my fun exercise of placing red pins on the cities I have traveled to; cities in Canada, USA, Mexico, Greece, Ireland, UK, Australia and New Zealand. It was an acknowledgement process for me, noting my own personal success of having traveled and taught Law of Attraction to so many people in so many foreign cities.

Next, I used the yellow push pin flags and selected the cities where I was next scheduled to teach Law of Attraction. I flagged Vancouver, Kelowna, Calgary, Edmonton, Toronto, Victoria and New York.

The third colour, the green push pin flags, I used to select countries where I WANT to visit and teach Law of Attraction in. Hmmm... where did I want to go? I selected three countries: Dubai, Spain and Brazil. I've not been to any of these places and think it would be fun to go teach there.

Now each time I walk into my home office, I see my large world map, I'm proud of where I've been, where I am going, and of course, the three green flags showing where I want to go next.
Each time I view this map, I'm setting the energy in motion by giving attention, energy of focus to these unchartered countries.

On September 25th, I received a call from the Spanish publisher of my book, saying "We would love for you to come to Spain to support us in launching your book here in January - all expenses paid, and we'll arrange seminars and media opportunities." Of course, I celebrated this manifestation and changed the green pin in Spain to a yellow pin, showing my upcoming tour in Spain. Say YES, if you love that!

To date, my current book Law of Attraction is being published in 28 languages, and landing in the top 10 in many languages.

I'm looking forward with anticipation to visiting Dubai and Brazil... then what country is next?
I encourage you to build your own world map of travels, setting the energy in motion for what you desire. Have fun.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience. For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't, visit http://www.LawOfAttractionBook.com

Does Using the Word "Want" Contradict the Law of Attraction?

By Michael Losier

If you're familiar with my work you'll often hear me use the phrase "So, what do you want?" In my book and other articles, I often refer to wanting to attract something. In short I use the word 'want'.

A number of people have been trained not to use the word 'want.' They have been told that when you use the word 'want' you're actually holding the vibration of not having 'it'. Or when you use the word 'want' you're coming from a place of lack.

For example, the word homework excites some people yet causes a negative vibration in others. Words can feel negative to one person and feel positive to another.

To illustrate my point, read the next two scenarios and after each one decide whether you are sending a negative vibration or a positive vibration. Note that the words are exactly the same.

Scenario # 1 - You notice something that you desire but in your head you catch yourself thinking, "I'll never get one as it's out of my reach." Then you say "I want one of those", in a whiny voice. (What vibrations would you be sending here?)

Scenario # 2 - You desire something new and you see it. With your eyes wide open and acting like an excited kid you say "I want one of those!" pointing at the exact item that matches your desire. (What vibrations would you be sending here?)

Remembering that Law of Attraction is responding to vibrations (your feelings), it's how you feel about the words you say which is most important.

It's not the words you use, it's how you feel about the words that you use.

So the next time somebody tells you not to use the word 'want' you can teach them why using the word 'want' is okay for you.

Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they don't. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC, Canada. He facilitates a number of in-person Law of Attraction seminars as well as Teleseminars to a worldwide audience. For more articles by Michael Losier, Teleclass information or to purchase the book, Law of Attraction, The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don't, visit http://www.LawOfAttractionBook.com

The Use of Practical Tips - Cleaning and Organizing Can Help the Law of Attraction Work for You

By S Ryanne Stellingwerf

One of the things to keep in mind when using the Law of Attraction is that you are actually trying to attract something. Well, if you don't have room for it, it has no place to move into in your life. Living in clutter can definitely block those things you are trying to attract. This is something you will see addressed in manifestation articles and books and will notice can make a difference for you. Removing clutter in our lives makes everything manifest more easily and quickly.

Although the obvious clutter would be in our homes, cars, offices, etc., there are other types of clutter. Look at your email inbox; do you need to purge emails? Look at your weight and health; do you have "body clutter?" Look at your finances; do you need to clean up bills and organize your finances? Take the time to even look at your thoughts. Do you need to schedule more time for relaxation so you can clear the clutter from your brain? These are all areas of our lives that we can address and remove clutter from.

The idea of removing clutter from our lives can be overwhelming. This is completely understandable. After all, you didn't accumulate it over night nor will you purge it over night.
The key here is to just do a bit at a time. Once you get going and you feel the difference in your life and in your manifestations, continuing will become easier. There are, I'm sure, many different clutter solutions out there if you need help and take the time to look. Look up "practical tips cleaning and organizing", "simple ways to declutter", etc. I personally enjoy Flylady. She is full of great ideas, solutions, and easy routines to follow that really make a difference. Her "Flylady Clutter Control" ideas are great.

Make this fun! After all, manifesting your dreams is certainly fun so look at this as just another aspect. It is a way to make room in your life for those things, qualities, and experiences you are intending to come to you. Each bit of clutter you get rid of creates a void that can be filled with something else. The great part about this is that it doesn't have to be something similar. For example, if you clean up the clutter in your car, it may make room for the love of your life. Think about it, (s)he didn't have a place to sit! If you clean up your body clutter, it may make room for more financial abundance to come in. You may have just removed the "insulation" that was blocking it. You never know what kind of wonderful manifestations you can experience when you start to declutter, but keep the excitement of that pending surprise in mind as you do your purging. It will become a joy and well worth the effort!

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Law Of Attraction - Where's The Money I Ordered?

By Monette Gauvreau

Ok let me start with this statement: It's not the money that you want, it's the freedom that comes with it!

Money is just a pile of paper, the same exact thing as the dead leaves in your backyard. If I was to hand you a big garbage bag full dead leaves and tell you that each of them is worth 1000$, you'd go crazy! So my point is, we're focusing on the wrong thing here. We're wishing and trying to attract the wrong thing. Because it's not the actual money that gets us all excited, it's what we can do with it. Money is just paper to the Universe. It's no big deal!

Picture this if you will: You just lost or quit your job, and you have those huge luxury house payments (which you should be grateful for the house by the way so you can get to keep it!), the dog needs glasses, your daughter wants a cell phone, you just got a brand new membership at the gym and you're tied in a 3 year contract, etc. So obviously, you don't have any money coming in, and wondering what you're going to do about it. Your poor brain is yelling: I NEED MONEY FAST!

So the first thing you're going to do, after learning about the Law of Attraction, is wanting to attract more money into your life, but here's the problem. After reading the list of things that you need, how do you feel about the word "money"? Not too good I assume. The word "money" for many of us brings about a feeling of fear, scarcity, limitations, lack, stress, worry, hard work, etc. How do you expect to attract the things you want in life if those are the feelings you're experiencing?

One word for you: "Stop!!" Oh dear God stop thinking about the money, and start thinking about the things you can buy with money, the bills you can pay, the trips you can plan, the gifts you can buy and the joy of the people who will be happy to receive them, the freedom you'll get of having no debts, paid off credit cards. Wow! Now how does that feel?

The key here is to flow positive energy, and usually, when you think about money, you flow negative energy. Don't go there! It's as if you're trying to bluff the Universe by saying: "Oh money (just paper remember?) makes me feel so good, it brings me joy, I want more of it (still just the paper)", when the Universe darn well knows that money doesn't make you feel good right now, the positive energy is not there. But you won't be bluffing anyone when you say "oh it feel soooo good to have the freedom that comes with having a lot of money, yay!" Now you're on the right track.

Feel good about the whole thing. Those feelings will send out the magnetic vibes that will attract that "want" straight your way with no detours. But feel good you must! Think of it as if you didn't need any money to get what you want in life, all you had to do was feel good about it. Of course the Universe might send money your way for you to do all those pleasant things because that's how society works, but you won't care, because you will get exactly what you want!

See, if you create a want and associate it with a "need" instead of "joy", you'll just get exactly what you ordered: more of "worries because of no money". So unless your idea of money is joyful and fun, forget the whole concept of money and focus on what you can get with money, and I guarantee you that you won't even have time to turn around to see the results. This is truly magical.

You can't order "money" from the Universe. I don't know anybody that's passionate about a pile of paper. For money to come in, you need things you want to buy or things you want to do with that money. Focus on that! You need a stream of positive energy to create some outlets for the money to come in. If you're goal is to pay off your debts, then for God's sake don't focus on the money! That was the problem in the first place!

Focus on how good it feels to have no debts at all and being able to do whatever you want! If you need 30,000$ to build the master bedroom of your dreams, then focus on the bedroom, how you're going to decorate it, the smell of the candles on the night stand, the softness of that silky red comforter, the fun times you're going to have by relaxing in it, and the money will come running your way before you can say "ka-ching!".

Focus and be grateful for what you already have (like your house) and other things that you want, so that you can get more of it! What will happen is the Universe will find a way, either with money or whatever else, because the "how" is not yours to figure out, as long as you're happy!
The Universe sees and uses money as a "way" of getting you to your dream. So don't worry about the money, it will be there, meeting you where your dreams are.

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The Action in Attraction

By Joanne Baskin

By now we have all been exposed to "The Secret" and the notion of positive thoughts bringing about positive feelings and energy therefore attracting positive experiences and results into our lives. Some of us have begun to journal about what we desire or have created vision boards. We have implemented daily rituals (such as yoga or meditation) into our lives which bring us to a mindful and present place of focus where gratitude and positive energy are the key principles.
These are the principles we are using in generating the kinds of business opportunities or ideal clientele we want.

So when is all of this supposed to manifest? Herein lays the distinction between the law of attraction and human expectation. Our expectations have been developed as a result of what we have already experienced. Our 'time frames" are merely a product of our own set of rules and predictions based on those experiences. However, they are just that-predictions. This is the "tricky" part because the notion of Law of Attraction infers that a present positive vibration will yield a future positive result. If we are bent on receiving a specific result, our focus becomes on "when and in how long?" At that point, we enter into patterned expectations and generate feelings of disappointment or impatience. These then become negative feelings, therefore negative vibrations. And so it goes ...

It seems then that the only choice we have is to find a way to release ourselves from what will happen to what is happening. What is happening is a reflection of what we have already thought.
What we have thought is translated into actions or behaviors which may or may not be in full alignment with what we want. We need to be inspired to act accordingly to our deepest wants and deepest values. Actions which are "inspired" are therefore those which marry what we feel passionately about with what we do. When emotions and passion begin to underpin our actions, then we are transformed towards creating new behaviors drawing in desired situations and new opportunities!

So what does this mean for your business? If we want to attract more, which inspired actions should we take? Here are some ways you can start the attraction process:

• Ask yourself, "What am I grateful for today in my business?" It may be as simple as, "I love that I have the freedom to set my own schedule!" Write it down or use your response as a meditative affirmation.

• Visualize. See yourself as a model of what you want to achieve and allow your emotions of pride and self-validation generate positive energy.

• Set an intention for the day. Rather than concentrating on objectives and goals, use intention as a flexible and organic stretch towards what you want. For example, "Today I will create new relationships which will take me one step closer to...."

• Look for clues. Conversations, images or thoughts often enter into our minds frequently during the day which we ignore. Make a conscious choice to mindfully ask yourself, "Is there an opportunity here?" or, "Can this person or situation help me in some way?" Our own open and questioning mind can generate a flow of creativity which will attract the right people and right situations.

When we find ourselves stuck in our own set of expectations, our actions then become measured and panic-driven. When we can create a business environment that maintains a flow of positive energy, the actions we take become more instinctive and inspired!

The Action in Attraction © Joanne Baskin 2007. All rights reserved.

Joanne Baskin is a Certified Professional Coach with ignitus Solopreneur Coaching. "ignitus" will help start up and solopreneurs create a compelling business vision, accompany them through their goal-setting while establishing work and life balance.

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Why Is The Law Of Attraction Not Working For Me?

By Colin Vandermeulen

The main components to the law of attraction
Many people mistakenly believe that all they need to do to activate the law of attraction is to sit in their living room and visualize having what they want. While this is one important aspect of it, it goes much deeper and involves much more than this. Action, belief, allowing, and letting go are all key elements that are required to successfully activate the law of attraction in your favor.

Action
Take some time to watch or research some successful people that you may admire. Chances are that you’ll find out that these people are BUSY. Or at the very least, they put a lot of time and effort in at some point in their lives to get to where they are today. It takes ACTION to achieve your goals. If you do nothing but sit in your living room visualizing, you won’t get anywhere. You need to take action steps to achieve your goals.

If you’re not sure what step to take, do something small, anything you can think of to get you started. Once you take your first step, the law of attraction will see you taking action and will present the next step to you. Don’t worry about doing something wrong. If you mess up, it’s only a failure if you give up. Learn from your mistakes and the Universe will present you with another path to reach your goal. Keep trying.

As an interesting side note, I find it intriguing that human beings are the only creature on this planet that can be complacent. They’re the only ones willing to give up and just accept things as they are. If you look at nature, a tree will always grow as big as it can. If you place an obstacle in front of an ant, it doesn’t just give up either. It will either go over, around, or under any obstacle. We can learn a lot from observing nature.

Emotional Blocks
If you’re a bit of a veteran in regards to reading up on the law of attraction, you will have probably come across the idea of being in vibration harmony with what you want. Basically what this means is that we have to be at an emotional match to what we want to receive. Emotions have much more attraction force than visualizing so we need to examine our emotions closely as they relate to our desires.

1. Wanting vs. Having
Take a moment and write down a few things that you want in your life. Are you done? I’m guessing that the items on your list didn’t include anything you already have? When you’re in the mindset of ‘wanting’ something, then you’re stuck in an emotional state of not having something. Your emotional state of wanting or not having will actually by the law of attraction, attract more circumstances for you to want and not have.

When you visualize try to imagine HAVING it NOW. Get right into it, feel what it’s like to have what you want. Make it as vivid and detailed as possible. Try to make a daily habit of doing this for at least 10-15 minutes. After a while this image of having it now will become more engrained in your subconscious mind and it will begin to look for ways to make it a reality.

2. Resistance
When you write down or visualize your desires or goals, what feelings come up? Do you really believe you can have them? Are you feeling resistance to taking the actions required to achieve what you want? Unfortunately, these are the biggest blocks to having the law of attraction work for you and they’re also the most difficult to change.

When you feel like you can’t achieve what you want, you’re sending that vibration out to the Universe and the Universe responds without question and by the law of attraction continues to keep you stuck where you are. Only when you believe that you can achieve, will you achieve. If you’re having trouble believing, break your goal down into smaller believable chunks. If you wish to earn $100,000 per year, but that’s not believable to you, make a smaller goal of $50,000 first if that’s believable for you. When you get there, make a new goal of $60,000 and just keep going until you hit your overall goal of $100,000.

Remember that the Universe is unlimited; it can just as easily give you $1 million as $1. It’s our beliefs that limit what the Universe can do for us.

3. Letting go of what you want
The law of attraction will work best when you can let go of getting what you want. What does this mean? Basically it means that if you get what you desire, great, if not, you’re still ok with the way things are right now. If you’re not happy with the way things are right now, then unfortunately, that is the vibration that you’re offering to the Universe and by the law of attraction, it will give you more circumstances where you won’t be happy with the way things are. Put in the simplest terms I can think of – What would you love to be, do, or have, but you’ll still be ok if it doesn’t happen for you? Learn to look for things to be happy about in the moment.
What are you grateful for in your life right now? When you learn to be more grateful for what you have right now, then the Universe will respond by the law of attraction and bring you more things to be grateful for. Spend some time everyday writing a journal of things you’re grateful for in your life. If you’re having trouble, go as simple as being grateful for the breath you just took, or the sunshine outside, or your health, or freedom, or your ability to read or see or walk. The list really is almost endless.

Conclusion
If you can put these things into practice, it should help you achieve better results with the law of attraction. Have patience though. The law of attraction works every time, but it doesn’t always work instantly or when you expect it to. Keep faith, often when people are just about to start seeing results they give up and say “this stuff doesn’t work”. And when they do, the Universe and the law of attraction bring them more circumstances to reinforce the idea that “this stuff doesn’t work”. If you keep at it using the principles above, it will work for you.

Colin VanderMeulen has been researching many forms of self-improvement and spirituality for years. He has recently begun his own website http://developingyou.net/ as a free resource for people looking to improve their lives.

How the Law of Attraction Can Help Your Business Prosper

By Leon Edward

The law of attraction, sometimes referred to as karma, applies to much, much more than just your personal life. The law of attraction is evident all throughout the universe so it is no wonder that a number of people are using the power of positive thoughts and actions to experience unforeseen success and profits in their businesses. As with other areas of your life, the law of attraction can have detrimental effects on your business as well if not used correctly.

So, what is the key to using the powerful law of attraction to improve your business and see it flourish?

It’s actually quite simple. The law of attraction is the universal understanding that your life is a reflection of your actions. Basically, what you accomplish and receive in life is the result of your thoughts and actions. Good thoughts and good deeds bring about success and happiness, while negative or hurtful actions end with complications and sadness.

In accordance with this simple law, you should concentrate your business efforts on benefiting the community and doing good for those around you. In turn, you will be rewarded for your good actions with increased profits and a growing business. If, instead, you embark on a business endeavor designed to deceive consumers into purchasing your product or service, you can expect troubles and hardships along your path.

It is very easy to use the law of attraction within your life, as well as your business. If your business has recently experienced a period of problems and complications resulting in a large loss of profit, consider your own thoughts and actions during that time frame. Were your own negative ideas and emotional vibes to blame for the poor performance? Did you have an adverse interaction with one of your employees or possible with a customer? Or maybe you expressed undesirable opinions and wishes regarding a competitor?

Your thoughts, ideas, and attitude also play a role in the law of attraction. Even if you are nice and amiable towards your competitors and others, your mental state must correlate with your actions or you will still lack a completely positive future.

There is nothing wrong with competition. Competitiveness is what drives businesses to improve and expand, giving us new products, better services, and a wider selection to choose from, but unhealthy competition typically results in failure. It is important to remember, in your quest for making your business number one, never wish hardships or destruction on others in the race.
Simply strive to do your best. Put your energy into improving yourself rather than trying to harm or destroy your competition, even if it is only in your thinking. These thoughts and intentions only create tension and a negative ambience. Sending these discouraging feelings will return you with negative results of your own.

According to the law of attraction, your thoughts and actions determine your fate, therefore you have the power to decide your own destiny. If you strive to create goodness, you can achieve your dreams. Look around you and notice those who recognize the law of attraction at work and are continuously seeking to improve humanity. They are typically friendly, easy-going, and understanding. Those who do not make an effort to do good are usually frustrated and short-tempered, often getting angry over the slightest problems. You will see the same effects on businesses. Those who follow the universal law operate efficiently and enjoy success, while those who do not are falling behind and operating in a chaotic state.

While no one can truly control everything in their life and undertakings, applying the law of attraction to all that you do can have extremely positive influences on your life. Reducing the amount of negative energy in your life can help you deal with problems and obstacles so you can succeed.

Leon Edward helps people achieve goals and dreams through understanding and following the universal laws, law of attraction and mind power. Learn more at his website http://www.justvisualizeit.net/lawofattraction.html

Leon Edward also helps others start, grow and promote legitimate home businesses through articles, blog, free home business newsletter and home business association resources at http://www.homebusinessit.com

Why the Law of Attraction Doesn't Work for Me

By Jim Somchai

There may be some points in time that you feel you have done everything. Yet you do not have the results you want. Although you have good goals, you have action plans, you make regular visualization, but you still failed. Why the law of attraction doesn't work for you while you have done all the things theoretically. What are the ingredients that you lack here? This article will talk about if the law of attraction works to everybody. And what make the law of attraction fail.

The first thing to understand is that the law of attraction is a law. The definition of law is that it must work. But the law has some specific condition. For example, the law of gravity, does it work for everybody? Of course it does. But if you are in the moving object, the law of gravity will work differently according to the shape of the object and the position you are in the object. In addition, if you suck the air out of that object and you stay inside. The law of gravity will not work because you have changed the condition. This is how some companies provide an astronautic environment and earn money by letting their customers enjoy the no-gravity feeling. This may sound somewhat scientific. But it gives a good idea that the law must work if it is a law. Unless the condition is changed, it must be as the law said.

Then, what are the conditions that will make the results of the law of attraction deviate from what it should be? Here are some conditions that you need to watch over to make sure that the law will work.

1. Your belief in your capability to achieve your goals
Most people either set too-easy goals or impossible goals. As for the latter, they have to put aside the goals because they do not believe that they can get what they want. Then, the goals are not meaningful at all. Your subconscious mind will follow what the conscious mind has perceived. The conscious mind sees the goals and thinks that there is no way you can achieve them. Your subconscious then will not work as mentioned in the law of attraction.

To test whether you truly believe that you will achieve your goals, do you dare to commit to it? For example, do you dare to tell others about your goals and that you are confident that you will get what you aim for? A lot of people may be afraid of doing that since they are not sure on the result. But if you are totally sure, you will not mind speaking it out. If you see that there is no need to announce that to the people who do not have goals and will not understand, how about making other ways of commitment to? Here is a good example:

Tom Hopkins said in his book that he used to teach a young man on goals and commitment on goals. The man said that he set goal to buy a sport car within the next twelve months. Tom asked him if he was sure and the man positively confirmed. Then he took hand of the young man and they went to a car dealer. Tom asked him to put the deposit of a sport car the young man like. This is a type of commitment that you will want.

2. Your action toward your goals
You need to take a lot of actions. No result will come out without action. You have to do it a lot and you have to do it right. You must discipline yourself and resist the temptation to be distracted.

3. Your visualization method

You must correctly visualize. When you visualize, you have a clear picture of achieving your goals. You close your eyes and do not think of anything else but what you are visualizing. This is rather difficult if you have not done this before. But once you master it, you can benefit from the law of attraction tremendously. You can add background audio to accelerate the attraction power. The Attraction Accelerator can be one of your choices.

The law of attraction may not work according to your experience. This article talks about how it works and what inhibit them to help you achieve your goals.

Jim Somchai Managing Director of JimSomchai Company. He devotes his time in studying success and has been interested in the works of many personal development leaders.
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The Law of Attraction - How it Works

By Megan Jenifer

The seeming phenomenon of this new “awareness” of the Universal Law of Attraction is sweeping the world, especially since the release of the eye-opening movie The Secret. Even though critics of the movie suggest that there were so many important things left out of the movie, the version with Abraham-Hicks went into details about how to activate this Law. Other scientist featured in the movie, such as Fred Alan Wolfe, went into the metaphysical reasons about how it works.

Simply stated, activating the Law of Attraction, paraphrasing the movie, is a three step process: Ask, Believe and Receive.

The Asking, according to Abraham-Hicks is done with thought vibrations and feeling. The Universe is made of vibrating particles of energy, of which we all consist of. Because of this energetic connection, our thought forms are energy signals that are projected into the Universe. Our emotional guidance system, according to Abraham-Hicks, is our personal indicator that lets us know when we are closer to realizing that which we’d like to see or that which we’d not like to see. Our thoughts and feelings do the asking. Not necessarily the words.

Believing is the next step in the process. Once the thought form is created, the belief sustaining this thought will be fueled often by emotion. Beliefs are very strong opinions that actually create your truth and your reality. When you have a strong belief for something to happen, usually it does. When you have a strong belief about something not happening, the ironic thing is that it also happens. This baffles a lot of people because underlying/subconscious beliefs are asking too. There’s a process beyond this that can help clear out these underlying beliefs if this really concerns you.

The last step is Receiving. The receiving part of the process is probably the most difficult for most people because it involves allowing: getting beyond resistance and attachment to the outcome…actually letting go. Often times, when we want something so badly, the feeling and thought-form surrounding it is “lack.” The Universe picks up on this vibration of “lack” and in turn returns more lack of whatever it is that you’re really asking for. So, to receive with success, requires you to release blockages and to cleanse areas of the subconscious that could be sabotaging your efforts without you even really being aware of it. This is what can frustrate some people with activating the Law.

The process of Ho’oponopono goes into more details about releasing. Some call it The Secret behind The Secret. To get a glimpse of what Ho’oponopono involves and how you can incorporate it with the Law of Attraction, visit the article The Law of Attraction and Ho’oponopono.

Megan Jenifer operates the blog http://www.TheLawofAttractionStation.com which is all about The Law of Attraction. She loves giving away free stuff and is now giving away a free copy of her special report, “The Top 10 Ways Most People Repel Money.” In addition to this free report, you’ll also have a free membership to her newsletter. You’re not going to believe what you get when you sign-up and it’s all free.

Law of Attraction & Personal Freedom - Where Independence Truly Lies

By Jeannette Maw

The 4th of July annual celebration reminds us not to take our freedom for granted. We’re prompted to consciously acknowledge and appreciate the independence won years ago, and to support our government’s continuing efforts to maintain our citizen rights.

However, with a sector of Americans at odds with our leaders, feeling misrepresented, unheard and deceived, some feel anything but gratitude for our unperceived freedoms. Frustration and disempowerment are often more typical feelings for those who oppose the leadership of our government.

But true freedom isn’t dependent on outside conditions; it doesn’t require particular circumstances be in place for us to feel peace. In fact, if we require certain situations to exist before we acknowledge freedom, we are anything but free.

True freedom lies within. Until we tap into that truth we’re at the mercy of the world around us for our peace of mind, joy and any other emotions we attach to liberty.

What is Freedom?The word “freedom” itself invites the idea of being able to do as we please. The dictionary definition includes “being exempt from external control or interference,” “at liberty rather than in confinement or under physical restraint,” and “the state of political or national independence.”

When we consider the nature of independence and liberty in our daily lives, many Americans – arguably the most privileged citizens to walk the planet - don’t feel strongly connected to these facets. We speak as if we’re slaves to a job or life responsibilities or even time. We believe that without an abundance of time, money or health, we aren’t free to live the lives we really want.
And with those thoughts we would be right; we are enslaved. Not by our job or position in life, but by our thoughts of such.

Our true freedom lies in our ability to deliberately choose our thoughts and feelings. When we practice choice of thought we no longer require things “out there” to be a certain way to feel peace “in here.” Our “feel good” comes from within. And it’s there waiting for us whenever we choose to entertain it.

Which means developing the discipline to choose how we think and feel is where we meet true freedom. When we realize we don’t have to have a certain amount of money in the bank, particular brand of government in office, health status, or whatever else we might condition our “feel good” on, we embrace authentic personal liberty.

How to Be FreeSince the foundation of freedom lies in our power to choose thoughts and feelings, we can embrace that power by developing a discipline of conscious choice. To resist the knee-jerk reactive thoughts that don’t feel good. And to find our way, one better-feeling thought after another, to more pleasant feelings.

As we practice conscious choice of thought, we no longer need the boss to acknowledge our contribution to feel good about our job. We don’t have to get an anniversary present to appreciate our spouse. We don’t require six months of living expenses saved up in order to sleep well.

The additional beauty of this practice is that once we regularly spend time with more pleasant thoughts, we attract a more pleasant life. One where bosses offer generous acknowledgements, spouses treat us like gold and money flows in abundance. Which just turns out to be icing on the cake, since we didn’t need any of that to enjoy life beforehand.

So next time you find yourself in a stressful conversation about the importance of patriotism, evils of terrorism, or whatever topic might inspire your negative feelings, remember your true freedom lies in your ability to choose your thoughts and how you feel. Instead of being stuck in anger or resentment, exercise your liberty to find your way to a better-feeling thought. Be picky about the thoughts you entertain.

Similarly, when you recognize you’re resisting a situation or circumstance in life, use it as an opportunity to come back to your personal freedom. Remember you are free to choose how you perceive it and how you feel. As you do so, you’ll find your sense of freedom increasing dramatically without anything else around you needing to change.

Our thoughts create our world. Until we consciously choose our thoughts, we are slaves to reality and are abandoning the freedom that is our human birthright. This holiday, celebrate your internal liberty to find your way to thoughts that create the world you want. Namaste.

Jeannette Maw is an Attraction Coach and founder of Good Vibe Coaching in Salt Lake City, Utah who helps clients get what they want using the Law of Attraction. She is co-author of "101 Great Ways to Improve Your Life, Vol. 3" and "Inspired Attraction," and speaks regularly on the topic of deliberate creation.

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