5 Killer Flirting Tips For Men That Drive Women Wild

By Tyler D Moss

One of the biggest problems that most men have with attracting women is their inability to flirt with a woman. Sure, you can do all kinds of nice gestures for them, but those things don't communicate to a woman on a more intimate level. This is where most men get stuck in the "lets just be friends" zone.

This makes flirting one of the greatest skills you could ever have. You can flirt with women you want to get to know, your girlfriend, your wife, and just about any woman at all. When other women see this they know that they are in the presence of a man who just gets it.

Before we get started you need to know what flirting is. The typical man thinks that it is about being nice to her or doing something nice for her. It really is much more then just those two things. Flirting is really about creating energy between you and her to make your interactions more exciting. Flirting creates those feelings of excitement and energy.

Tip #1 Give & Take- Most flirting tactics can be broken down into giving her something and then taking that something away from her. This is a way to trigger her emotions. When you give somebody something that they like they usually want it back again.

You: You have such nice soft smooth hands. I could hold them all day long. Her: (Smiling)You wait for 3 minutes. You: Your hands aren't as nice to hold as they were a few minutes ago. I take everything back. It gets old after awhile.Her: Hey! (Reaches for you hand to hold it again)

Tip #2 Compliment Her- You have probably tried to compliment a woman before. It works great when you do it right. Flattery is at its best when it feels like you really appreciate her. Most guys get this wrong. They often compliment a woman in a way that makes her think that he is desperate. Try looking for something in her that makes her the great person she thinks that she really is. "Your freckles really turn me on."

Tip #3 Lead- Women love the feeling of being swept off their feet. Its the sort of thing they read about in those romance novels and the things that they fantasize about. You can give her that sort of a feeling by using your leadership abilities. One of the best places to start is psychically.
Use your touch to show her that you will initiate and lead physical contact. To do this right off the bat try holding onto her hand too long when you shake hands.

Tip #4 Use Curiosity- One of the things people can't resist is their own curiosity. Ask yourself how you can make her curious.

"There is something very intriguing about you..."

She then will want to know what it is that you find intriguing about her. You can play with this in allot of different ways and reword it in many different ways.

Tip #5 Demonstrate Interest- A woman needs to know in that moment you are interested in her and not just any woman. This shows her that you are picky, have standards, and that she has met those standards. This make her feel special and she will know that you have picked her.
With all that banter you should be asking her some questions about herself and get to know her.
The idea is to mix things up so it still seems playful.

Conclusion
The key for you to know about flirting is to make certain that your behavior shows the woman that you are interested in her in a sexual manner. This really is the key to flirting. All the romantic stuff has to come later on when you are in a relationship.

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5 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman

Interested in a life of constant arguing, withering stares, and no sex? Just keep using these phrases

By: Sarah Miller

SPEAK NO EVIL
Women freak out. Often at you. Often for no discernible reason.

You say something that you consider totally innocuous, or even downright nice, only to find that you've offended, enraged, or annoyed us.

Your first problem--being attracted to women, a very weird group of people--is not going to go away. But here's a problem you can solve: word choice. You need to know the phrases that, once introduced to her volatile atmosphere, will result in explosion (or quiet contempt--no picnic either). Then you need to strike them from your vocabulary.

Warning: Some of these absolute no-no words and phrases seem so incredibly harmless, you may think we're kidding. We're not.

Forbidden Phrase #1: "Relax."
It might seem logical to you to tell a woman who's freaking out to relax. And if "logical" meant the same thing as "stupidest idea ever," you'd be correct. Understand, a woman screaming and carrying on in anger or frustration or panic thinks that her response is 100 percent appropriate. If the inciting situation has anything to do with you, she feels she has a responsibility to freak out extra to compensate for your maddening calm.

So when you tell her to relax, you're implying that your response--i.e., nothing--is correct. You're denying that there's a reason to be upset. You're telling her she's crazy. Women may sometimes feel crazy and joke about it, but anything smacking of accusations of being crazy will be far from soothing.

Say..."I'm just as upset about this as you are. Let's deal with it together." This way she knows you're totally sympathetic. This should help her to...oh, God...relax.

Forbidden Phrase #2: "I love you." (During a fight)
In movies, "I love you" is usually employed by men during I-love-you–appropriate situations--lovemaking, walks on the beach, airport reunions. In real life, a woman hears "I love you" most often at that point in a fight when she desperately wants to get to the heart of the issue, and when you desperately want to stop this nonsense and watch Alias--which you don't normally even watch.

When you come home shirtless from a bachelor party or forget our birthdays and stand there in the face of our rage and crushing disappointment, do you really believe that merely stating the powerful existence of your love is going to make everything okay? Because it's not.

Say . . .

1. "[Insert detailed explanation of what you did and why you did it.]"

2. "It won't happen again."

3. "I love you." (It's okay at the end of the apology, just not at the beginning.)

And when you go to a bachelor party, take along an extra shirt.

Forbidden Phrase #3: "It's up to you." (A.K.A. "Whatever you want to do is fine with me.")

Relationships are full of decisions. You decide where to eat, where to go on vacation, where to send your child to preschool. Most men wouldn't dream of looking at their wife or girlfriend and saying, "You know what? I just don't care." They would, however, say, "It's up to you." And find themselves in a world of hurt they never saw coming.

Men think of decision-making as work without pay. For women, it's like window-shopping for life's possibilities, and we want you to help us shop. So when you say, "It's up to you," we feel abandoned.

Say . . . "I could definitely do A or B, but I'm not crazy about C. What are you thinking?" This shows you're listening, suggests you care, and gets you out of deciding.

Forbidden Phrase #4: "You knew I was this way when you married me."
Well, the truth is that we didn't. Or we knew deep down, but we were so busy enjoying our fantasy of you that we chose to ignore what was really there. It's not your fault. It's just that when we were little, we spent so much time daydreaming about having the perfect life. Now that we're actually in grown-up life, we can't turn off our daydreaming switch.

Telling a woman, "You knew I was this way when you married me" is like saying the way your life is right now is the way it's going to be forever and ever. And that may well be true--in many wonderful and not-so-wonderful ways. But if she were to accept that, a little part of her would die.

Say . . . "It frustrates me, too--and I'm working on it." It's a lie. That's okay.

Forbidden Phrase #5: (Nothing)
At times, you may be afraid of saying the wrong thing. You may think, If I just keep my mouth shut, I'll be okay. Well, no. Imagine you're pitching in a baseball game in which there is no hitter, not even a catcher. You would not enjoy that. Imagine yourself, head hanging, going to retrieve the ball yourself and, once again, throwing it to no one. That's how we feel when you don't talk to us.

Say . . . Anything. Throw the ball back. Throw it badly. Even risk throwing a wild pitch and letting her take an extra base. But keep your head in the game.

THE MAGIC WORDS
3 instant get-out-of-jail-free cards

When a woman wants to kill you, you have one thing going for you: Deep down, a tiny part of her wants you to make her not do it. She just might put down the apple slicer if you say one of the following sentences.

"Just tell me everything." I don't think a man has ever actually uttered this statement, so make history. Here's the thing: Our most violent anger is often the result of anticipating being forced to shut up. So once we're told we can give our entire, endless account--no rushing or defending ourselves--we cool off. Side benefit: We also get a little intimidated. We think, Is this part important or interesting or relevant? We edit ourselves.

"You are just so beautiful." The trick: You must say it as if it's just occurring to you at the moment, as if her pulchritude were a rainbow suddenly in your path, the stunningness of which has left you incapacitated, emotionally stunted, but in a good way. Say it as if you can remember little else--certainly not whatever irksome matter you were just discussing. Works well as an alternative to "I love you"-- but, the same way butter makes anything taste better, it's all-purpose.

"Sorry. It was all my fault." So classic. So hard to say. Because it's never all your fault, of course--and it's a very rare case in which she shouldn't also say she's sorry. Everyone likes to save face, especially men. But truly, there is nothing hotter to a woman than a man who's willing to admit he was wrong because he just loves her so damn much. You might feel like you're losing her respect, but unless you're always the one to apologize (which means you have a crazy lady on your hands), trust me, you're gaining it.

10 Ways to Make Her Beg for More

Are you trying too hard? Or not hard enough? Strike the right balance and she won't be able to keep her mind, or her hands, off you

By: Sarah Miller

Women love men. We want your attention and love more than we want anything else on this planet. That's the good news. The less-good news is that the amount of attention and love we want is very specific. If you don't give us enough, we will get mad and seek it elsewhere. Shower us with too much, though, and we lose interest, right after we get grossed out. Striking the perfect balance makes us feel taken care of and independent all at once, and that makes you irresistible. These 10 simple lessons will help you find the right proportions.

1. You're trying too hard if you use any line other than "Hi, my name is Jimmy." You're not trying hard enough if you just stand there and drink beer.

The first step, as always, is getting a woman to go out with you. Whether you're talking to a friend of a friend, a woman you met at a bar, or a photogenic stranger online, you want to come across as interested and friendly but not desperate. You will not lose points for approaching with confidence. Remember, women want you to hit on them; it's why we wear tank tops and lipstick. Once you have engaged her attention, the really hard part is over. The best thing you can do at this point is just let her talk. She should be good at that.

When it's your turn, try to give answers that are not mumbled and are more detailed than a Magic 8-Ball response. Say something about why you got into your line of work or, if you hate your job, something about your pet. If you hate your job and you don't have a pet, you must be very unhappy, so then, of course, you could start talking about therapy. The point is, you can talk about anything, and if you're funny and relatively sure of yourself, she'll appreciate your input. When in doubt, turn the focus back on her.

Also, during initial encounters, it's common for guys to start ticking off their accomplishments. Such as, "It's funny you should mention your plans for the Fourth of July, because I happened to go to Harvard -- near Boston, where the American Revolution began." Keep in mind that talking to a woman for the first time is not a job interview, however similar the two might seem. Excerpt your resume sparingly.

2. You're trying too hard if the evening you've arranged required more than two reservations. You're not trying hard enough if you show up expecting her to improvise a game plan.

Some men make the mistake of going all out on the first date -- the limo, the four-star restaurant, the front-row seats. This worked for Frank Sinatra, but unless you once sold out the Copa Room at the Sands, it will not work for you.

If such luxury is not your standard, you're going to be out of your element at a time when you should be smack in its middle. Stick with what you know. Take her to a place you like, where the owner and host and waitstaff know you. Familiarity and friendliness impress us, unless it's a topless bar.

And don't forget: Clean your car. If you invite her back to your place at the end of the evening and your home is a little messy, that's not such a big deal. (You might even get bonus points because it will appear that your proposition wasn't premeditated.) A messy car, however, is a different story. Something about it just says, "I want to be alone. Forever."

3. Smitten can easily turn into pathetic.

It's natural, in the heat of a new relationship, to go wild. You want to whisk her away for a romantic weekend, you want to create brilliant mix CDs for her, you want to pull her into every available photo booth for cute snapshots of the two of you nuzzling. And if you're pretty sure she's 100 percent into you, go for it. (Just don't make us watch.) If, however, you sense that she's interested, yet not quite as over the moon as you are, try doing one of those things, but not all of them.

See, you shouldn't be afraid to try to win over a woman who's undecided about you; if it didn't occasionally work, the word "woo" wouldn't exist. But if you must pursue, do so without getting all neurotic about it, and simply because you enjoy the pleasure of her company. Most women find such pure dedication difficult to ignore.

Tip: Don't ever ask a woman you're dating, "Where is this going?" If you have to ask, the answer is not likely to be one you'll want to hear. And anyway, women have exclusive rights to that query, don't ya know?

4. When it comes to sex, her saying "Wow" is good. "Wow, are you auditioning for the circus?" means you probably need to ease it down a notch.
Women do like to have orgasms. We don't need to have 10 in one night. Secret, exciting techniques are great; if they're effective, it will be evident and there will be no need for a recap, complete with anatomy lesson, of what's just transpired. The good thing about sex is that it's intimate. The scary thing about sex is that intimacy brings out everyone's insecurities. Avoid the impulse to ask if it was good, and how good, and was it the best? As for trying to find out what she likes, you should be able to tell by her responses.

If you're not sure, say something like, "Just FYI, I take requests." Add a wink, and an icky conversation is successfully avoided.

Don't ask, "Did you enjoy that?" You'll sound like a waiter. A particularly annoying waiter, at that.

5. Communication: good. Poetry: bad.

My friend received an e-mail from her new boyfriend the other day that said, "I'm watching the skies of Seattle grayen and begin to weep, and taking some time to reflect on the day." This is a classic example of a guy trying way, way too hard. I don't know if she's broken up with him yet, but she's probably thinking about it. What's sad is that some ex-girlfriend probably told him he should share his feelings more, but then neglected to add that those feelings should be expressed in plain English and not dressed up in a stupid little outfit.

Women really want to hear absolutely everything, so talk, fax, e-mail, call us all you want. But when you do, make sure you sound genuine.

Rule of thumb: You know you're in trouble when you start making up words.

6. Think boyfriend, not butler.

Men with good manners are cute and can even be sexy. Men with excessively good manners are obsequious and often repulsive. It's a question of degree: If it's raining or she's wearing a formal gown, go ahead and open her car door first; otherwise, it's fine, after the first few dates, to just unlock it from inside. Getting her a drink from the bar is great, but don't order dinner for her.
Opening doors is nice, but not if you have to sprint ahead of her to do so. Leaving her at the coffeeshop while you run to the deli for the soy milk she likes or mailing a shower puff to her at the office because she mentioned in passing that she needs a new one (true stories) is way too attentive.

Relax. We're not expecting too much. Show us just a degree more courtesy than you'd show the next guy, and you'll impress.

7. Go the fun (not romantic with a capital R) route for a first-time getaway.

Flying to Paris with a man sounds romantic to a woman. Your mentioning it on date three sounds moderately psycho -- and a lot like a false promise. When you first knock suitcases with a new lover, make sure they're weekender bags -- and drive to a nearby casual destination. Heading to Texas for your cousin's wedding: not so casual.

Side note: If you're both outdoorsy and athletic, an adventurous weekend spent rafting or rock climbing will show off your muscles and be sure to impress. However, if you lack athletic grace, it's a bad idea to ask a woman you've just started seeing to go on, say, a ski weekend. Your sitzmark won't be sexy. Her fake fall to ease your embarrassment won't be subtle. Everyone will end up bruised and turned off.

8. You're trying too hard if you take her home to Mama too soon. You're not trying hard enough if she suspects you're an orphan.

It's okay -- good, even -- to talk about your family on early dates. It helps us create the emotional profile of you that we're building in our minds. But it's scary to a woman if you let slip too early that you told your mom about her. Or if you ask her to meet your parents before it's clear you're an exclusive couple.

Tip: Family photos on your fridge can launch intimate conversations. However, nonstop chatter about your nieces and nephews says you're trying too hard to convince us you're really into kids. This tends to be a common tipoff of commitment phobia. Consider yourself suspect.

9. Random acts of kindness impress. Doing everything for her is patronizing.

Changing the lightbulb in her high-ceilinged kitchen because you've noticed it's been out for a while and, well, you know she can't reach it and has a fear of ladders is the kind of stealth thoughtful move that makes a girl want to keep you around forever. Changing all the bulbs in her apartment to energy-saving fluorescent: trying too hard. Yes, women love men who volunteer their strength and guy knowledge when needed and, sometimes, without asking. The fact that you want to take care of her is sexy.

But bear in mind: She managed her life before you came along.

10. Remember: Your cousin Victor, who acts like a jerk but has nine girlfriends, is not a role model. He's a force of nature.

Yes, there are guys out there who treat women poorly and still get laid all the time. You wonder, Would I have better luck if I behaved the way they do? You wouldn't. And here's why: Those guys are either really gorgeous or otherwise oozing some mysterious sex appeal that can be neither identified nor emulated. Sorry. Some day those men will be old and will not, like you, have cultivated all these amazing woman-pleasing skills. Their beautiful young wives will cheat on them with the next generation of sex-seeping slimeballs. Take comfort in this.

In the meantime: You're sentenced to a romantic life demanding a healthy modicum of effort, many acts of kindness, and occasional restraint. Start now!

Source: Men's Health

Why Men Won't Commit

By Mark I Myhre

Oh, you think men won't commit?

I know for a fact that millions of men can't wait for that 'special day' to arrive. They'll think about it constantly. Talk about it with their friends. Dream about it at work. And the week leading up to that special day - they can't wait for it to happen.

Finally it comes! And win or lose, they're still just as committed to their favorite football team. And don't even get me started about fly fishing. Or car racing. Or...

And what about their careers? How many men are married to their jobs? You think that's not a commitment?

When you think about it, men have no problem making commitments. The problem is - if you're a woman - how come the man won't make a commitment to YOU?

It's simple. When a man thinks of making a commitment to a woman, it often conjures up images and feelings of loss of freedom. And nobody wants to lose their freedom.

Rightly or wrongly - correctly or incorrectly - thoughts of commitment to a woman mean that he will have to endure some sort of pain. And it often becomes an evaluation between the perceived pleasure versus the perceived pain. Is the reward of sex, companionship, sharing, and oh yes, love... worth the pain of being trapped and having to endure the inevitable griping and nagging?

Generally speaking, that's 'how a man thinketh'. Maybe not in those exact terms, but I can assure you there is some sort of evaluation process going on; of weighing the pros and cons of a commitment.

So what's the solution for you - as a woman who's looking for a man to commit? Because certainly YOU wouldn't seek to curtail the freedom of the man in YOUR life. YOU wouldn't gripe or nag.

Well, you could simply sit down and talk to the man in question. Reason with him. Use logic - cold hard logic - to present your case. Just like he would try to use logic with you. Convince him that it's in his best interest to make a commitment.

Use logic; since the lipstick doesn't seem to be working...

It probably won't work. But you could try. Actually, I can just about guarantee you it won't work.

No, you'd be much better served by looking at your OWN beliefs and attitudes and feelings and thoughts. Why do you want a commitment from a man?

I know. It's obvious. But pretend it isn't. Start by looking at your assumptions. What do you think a commitment from a man is going to give you? Love? Security? Intimacy? And what does it mean if you secure a commitment?

"I got him!"?

Or do you truly seek to better the human species?

Or do you want to help love itself evolve?

In other words, what agenda are you bringing to the table? Your mindset - your beliefs - your agenda - your feelings - they all come together to form a resonance.

A resonance that others can pick up to one degree or another.

If you're cool and calm and sweet on the outside - but a stewpot of desperation and fear and anguish and anger on the inside... If you're 10% calm and 90% frantic - you're going to form a SINGLE resonance that is mostly franticness.

You can try to hide your true feelings; even from yourself. Everybody does. But it still shows up in your resonance. And resonance determines what happens. YOUR resonance determines what happens to YOU. That's why it's so vitally important to look at your assumptions. Because they're a major component of your resonance.

Ideally, you'd write out your true feelings. Get out paper and pen, and at the top of the paper write something like: Why I Want A Commitment. Then just start writing and see what happens.

With the goal of tapping into The Repressed Voice. The denied emotions - the thoughts and feelings that aren't socially acceptable but nonetheless are there. Because if you're seeking a commitment from a man - and it's not happening - there's a very exact reason why it's not happening.

And if you think the reason is because the man is a coward or the man is this or the man is that - you've just given your power away. So nothing will change.

Most likely the reason you're frustrated is because of The Repressed Voice inside of you... that's making up a HUGE part of your resonance.

The key is to get in touch with those thoughts and feelings and beliefs and attitudes you deny. Get them out on the table. Let them speak. (Privately - to you!) Dissipate their energy so they will stop controlling your life and giving you what you say you don't want.

It comes down to being real with yourself. Loving and honoring yourself enough to let even the unpleasant emotions come up. Let them come up and let them express and let them release. Nobody else has to know.

Then you can truly become the person that any man would love to commit to.

As the saying goes: a man wants to be with a woman because she makes him feel good. By healing your repressed emotions and allowing your muted anguished voice to express itself - you will become the woman that naturally attracts a commitment from a man.

Because you've made a commitment to yourself first. And you proved it by taking the time to understand yourself more.

Mark Ivar Myhre, The Emotional Healing Wizard, writes articles on all aspects of emotional healing. For more information, go to the blog Emotional Times ==> http://www.emotional-times.com

The Growing Trend of Men and Cosmetic Surgery

By Keion Moradi

Advancements in cosmetic plastic surgery have entered mainstream society, appealing to people from all walks of life, including men. Cosmetic surgery for men is a growing trend, with numbers continually on the rise. While women still take the lead, accessible cosmetic surgery cost, along with the convenience of non-invasive and minimally invasive options available, have caused men to warm up to the idea of cosmetic plastic surgery.

Advancement and accessibility are not the only reasons more men choose cosmetic surgery. The society in which we live places emphasis on appearance in dating situations and the workplace.
An attractive appearance exudes confidence. Many men, particularly the baby boomer generation, may find the need to stay competitive in the workplace with a refreshed appearance.
Divorced men find cosmetic surgery an ideal option for a confidence boost for returning to the dating arena.

Men are also requesting many of the same cosmetic surgical procedures as women. The top five most requested procedures for men are rhinoplasty, hair transplantation, liposuction, eyelid surgery and breast reduction. Some procedures can be combined, reducing recovery time.

Cosmetic Surgery for Men and Rhinoplasty
Rhinoplasty is a cosmetic surgical procedure that reshapes the cartilage in the nose. Men, like women, choose this procedure to refine the nose contours. Reshaping the nose can create significant improvements to overall appearance by complementing other facial features. Recovery time depends on the complexity of the procedure.

Liposuction as a Growing Trend for Men
Liposuction is a preferred body-sculpting tool among both men and women. This is an ideal cosmetic procedure for removing fat cells from troublesome areas of the body. Men usually elect to have liposuction performed on the waistline and the chin.

Cosmetic Surgery Trends and Hair Transplantation
Hair transplantation is becoming a popular method for men experiencing pattern baldness. The surgeon removes healthy hair follicles from different parts of the body and transplants them to bald areas on the scalp. Hair transplantation usually requires several sessions.

Hair transplantation is a delicate cosmetic plastic surgery and involves precise execution on behalf of the surgeon. A highly experienced cosmetic surgeon is necessary to maximize results. Surgeons must be able to identify the natural hair whorl pattern on your scalp in order to correspond with your natural hair pattern.

Cosmetic Eyelid Surgery and Men
Cosmetic eyelid surgery energizes appearance and can be performed on the upper or lower eyelid. Upper eyelid surgery is performed on drooping eyelid. Lower eyelid surgery reduces puffiness.

The Growing Trend of Men and Breast Reduction Surgery
Cosmetic breast reduction surgery is offered to men desiring a more masculine chest. Breast reduction involves a procedure to remove excess fat and tissue. The outcome is a more youthful male chest.

Nonsurgical Cosmetic Procedures and Men
Nonsurgical cosmetic procedures are particularly attractive to men. Procedures cost less than more invasive cosmetic surgery and can be carried out in an outpatient facility. At the top of the list are Botox injections, as a temporary answer for a facelift. In fact, many fillers can be applied to different areas of the face to restore a vibrant look. Among other popular noninvasive cosmetic procedures are laser hair removal, laser skin resurfacing, microdermabrasion and chemical peels.

Cosmetic surgery has become a more safe and common procedure over the years and the cosmetic surgery cost has decreased along with the risk of the procedure. Make sure you consult with a doctor before committing to any form of cosmetic plastic surgery

Dating Tips - Dating Secrets About Women Men Don't Know

By Pushpa Pal Singh

Thousands of dating tips and articles are cluttered across the web. Almost all those dating tips and articles suggest several different ways and methods to get a date and do's and don'ts of dating. But dating is not only about do's or don'ts it's rather much more than that. There are several dating secrets about women men do not know and have always been oblivious to. Read on to find out some of the biggest dating secrets men don't know about women.

Nice men are good daters- This is one of the biggest dating misconception. Nice men are always known to finish last no matter how hard they try. This is belief many men carry with themselves thinking they might score a date being nice. This is one of the worst dating belief promoted and passed on through ages. Women prefer men who are good at the dating game and know how to play it.

Ugly men never get dates- Another dating secret most men are oblivious to. You do not have to look like tom cruise to get a date. It's much more than just mere looks and physical aspect. Dating has to do more with the person's overall personality than mere looks. Therefore ugly guys do get dates and not so good looking people have been known to score with exceptionally gorgeous women as well in the dating game.

Dating labor- Most men think it takes a lot of effort and time to get a date. This is another dating secret which is not known to men. You need to be a smart dater instead of being a hard working dater. The only way you can succeed in the dating game is by the proper usage of your brain not brawn.

Women are hard to find- This is another dating myth which is carried by most men who can't find a date. Well if you look around properly you would be amazed to discover that there are more single women looking to date than you can possibly imagine. But women are selective in the dating game. They only choose the best of the lot for dating no matter what. So if you think there is a deficiency of women on this planet than you certainly belong to the weaker lot which women do not prefer in the dating game.

What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman’s mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say. They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Read on to discover some of the most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to know- 9 Most Shocking Secrets Women don't want men to know

What Men Expect During A Date

By Pauline Go

Many times people wonder about the expectations of a woman from a man. However, even men do have certain expectations from women. Most importantly, in order to get a perfect man, a woman should also be perfect. Listed below are some of those qualities that men usually search in a woman.
Honest and Trustworthy: Men are extremely possessive about their woman. Often men do not like women who still think about their past relationships or those who have a flirtatious nature. They want their partner to be completely committed to their relationship.

Matching interests: Men prefer those women whose interests match with their own. It would be easier to carry on the relationship with a person who has similar interests.

Appearance: Men are seeking a woman who is attractive to them. A good appearance and a healthy toned body is always the most preferred feature in a woman. Hence, women should always be dressed for the occasion in a way that turns heads

Personality: Men admire women who are caring, gentle, supportive, intelligent and have a positive attitude. However, men also dislike those women who are dominant. Hence, one should learn to adopt a balanced approach in order to have a successful date. Another beautiful way to tame a guy’s heart is to have a good sense of humor. A woman’s laugh could make an everlasting impression. Apart from this, men also appreciate women who are wise at spending money and are good at managing finances.

Sexuality: Sexuality is another aspect that men often look into. Creating an aura of ambiguity is important as men get attracted to women who are intriguing, mysterious and alluring. They want their woman to become passionate and turn into a wild horse while making love.
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Healthy Foods Different for Women and Men?

By Vicky Lynum

The nutritional needs of women and men are different. It is important that each knows what type of food is better for her or his body.

For women, linseed is a good “weapon” against breast cancer because of its large amounts of lignans, chemical compounds similar to estrogen, that also act as antioxidants. Women who have suffered from breast cancer and added linseed to their diet have slowed the cancer spreading process, according to recent U.S. studies.

Soy is also more efficient for women because it lowers the level of cholesterol, and maintains bone health, according to a study of the Department of Food Science and Human Nutrition and the Department of Kinesiology of the University of Illinois. Women have a higher risk to suffer from anemia than men because of the menstruation. A low level of iron in the blood may lead to severe forms of fatigue. Lean beef is useful in these cases because it has considerable amounts of iron and gives a lot of energy.

Cabbage may have a benefic effect on women because it maintains bone health. This way, cabbage protects the body from developing osteoporosis. Beside calcium and vitamin C, cabbage also contains large amounts of vitamin K. Women can decrease by thirty percent the risk of suffering a hip fracture if they eat at least 109 micrograms of vitamin K per day, researchers found. For instance, half a cup of cabbage contains 375 micrograms of vitamin K.

Papaya is a tropical fruit that contains twice as much vitamin C than an orange and protects from vesicle diseases. Women with a lower lever of vitamin C present a higher risk to suffer from vesicle diseases, according to researchers.

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Why The Loafer Style Continues To Be One Of The Hottest Shoe Styles For Men And Women

By Gregg Hall

A lot of people like to trade comfort for price. A lot of women wear thing that hurt their feet such as high heels but they do it for the looks. Most other people would buy anything for comfort. Many creators of things such as clothing and shoes have begun to make thing that are more of comfort than style to the customers.

When you speak with people that own a pair of loafers, they will tell you one thing that they are the best and most comfortable shoes they have. Loafers are a type of shoe that allows you feet to get air. They are not prone to giving blisters and are good for your feet. They usually have a good thick sole and can be of comfort to many. Even though they might be a tight fit they are a good type of shoe to have and wear everyday. Loafers are something that you don’t rush to take off when you get home. Instead you may like wearing these at and in your home.

A lot of the people that wear these shoes like the fact that they are comfortable and are low maintentance. These shoes can be worn with no laces therefore no tying. They are also good for people who have had back problems and that can’t bend over easily. You can be sitting down and put a pair of loafers on without even moving. These shoes are very comfortable and won't and shouldn’t go overlooked.

Loafers are a good type of shoe because they can be worn on many different occasions. They can be worn everywhere work home anywhere. They are worn everywhere to dress up or down.
You can match them with basically anything you have. When they are worn with jeans they are most a casual look. These shoes can be worn everywhere that you go everyday.

A lot more creators of this shoe are making more and more options of this type of shoe. At first you could only buy the pair of shoes in brown or black leather. However you can still get the original brown and black you can get other styles and colors as well. You will be able to find any type of loafer that you can think of. These many different varieties can be very affordable and bought many places. In the past only older people only wore leather loafers, now younger people as well are wearing these shoes too. These shoes will not go overlooked and are very comfortable. All of the many different types are popular and are most affordable to every person that likes loafers.

Gregg Hall is an author living with his beautiful wife and family in Navarre Beach, Florida. Find more about shoes as well as casual shoes at http://www.dressorcasualshoes.com

Men's Shirts - Fashion, Not Just Function

By Adam Singleton

For many, the average men's shirt is simply a garment of utility - one that is worn by men across the world for reasons of function and not necessarily fashion. But this attitude belies the hundreds of years of trends in men's shirts.

From the typical collarless shirts with billowing sleeves worn by classical painters to the modern formal button-down shirt, men's shirts have captured the imaginations of both designers and ordinary men for generations. In the twentieth century in particular, a range of different shirt styles have proved popular with men of all ages.

One of the most important developments in men's shirts over the last hundred years, for example, has been the invention of the polo shirt. The polo shirt, or 'tennis shirt', was created by legendary French tennis player Rene Lacoste in 1929 as an alternative to the stiff dress shirts and ties typical of tennis attire at the time.

In the 1960s, Ralph Lauren propelled the polo shirt to new heights as a prominent item in his 'Polo' collection; and since this time the polo shirt has become so popular that it is now a standard category of clothing - although it has fallen out of favour with most tennis players. The granddad shirt has also been a long lasting trend in men's shirts in the twentieth and twenty-first centuries.

These collarless shirts have been popular with men in warm countries for decades and have seen a variety of incarnations throughout the years. The Nehru Jacket, for instance, is a South Asian version of the modern granddad shirt that was popularised by the first Indian Prime Minister Jawaharlal Nehru in the 1950s and early 1960s, and has since been prominently worn by a number of celebrities, from the likes of Sammy Davis Jr to Steven Segal. Today's granddad shirt preys on bright colours and an ethno-bohemian vibe that appeals to a variety of men's fashion trends - from festival clothing to smart casual summer wear.

The button-down shirt has also been one of the most influential men's shirts in fashion history - but memories of how it was created tend to be somewhat hazy. Some fashion experts claim that the button-down collar shirt was invented by an American shirt manufacturer who was inspired by an English polo match, in which players had their collars clipped down to avoid flapping in the wind.

Others say that button-down shirts were created in New York, when their inventor (as yet anonymous) attached his collar to his shirt with buttons in a fit of annoyance at the oncoming wind. But whatever the origin of the button-down shirt, its impact on the men's shirt industry has been historic, as button down shirts are now worn in both formal and casual contexts.

Today, short-sleeved men's shirts are often worn with skinny jeans, large belts and tailored waistcoats for a fresh and informal look that still exudes smart chic. And with men's shirts available in a variety of colours - from grey to raspberry - and in a variety of floral and striped patterns, it's clear that evolving trends in men's fashion are far from over.

Adam Singleton is an online, freelance journalist and keen amateur photographer. His portfolio, called Capquest Photography is available to view online.