Defining Yourself

By Nitish Kapoor

How do you define self respect? While you ponder upon this question,there is another one. What is more important respecting others or self respect? Well never mind I'll give you the answer. Both the questions answer each other within themselves. This is the beauty of words.

Only a few can understand this. Are you one of those? Never mind I'll give you the answer. You are not what you are, you are what you decide to be You are not what you want to be, but you are what you have to be. The two lines although look conflicting but are completely exhaustive of each other. If the option is with you, you can decide. But if not, you are what the situation demand of you.

Walking down along the straight line is very easy.The problem lies when you have to draw the line yourself and then walk along with it.You have to make sure about two things-One that the line drawn is straight and second that you do not make any mistakes in coping up with the length and trajectory of the line.

Even if you do not succeed it is still better than letting any one else draw the line for you.
There is another question- Are the lines drawn realistic or far fetched?

Walking down the fantasy lanes is easy,because then your mind is devoid of any complaints. But no matter how tempting and lucrative they look they will take you no where,for dream no matter how close to your heart is always short lived.