Daily Wisdom

By Christina Sponias

A few words of wisdom can make you understand the meaning of your pain and help you give it a heroic perspective.

A few words of humor can help you completely forget how horrible you feel.

A few words of logic can help you be very realistic and practical.

A few words of gratitude can compensate you for a thousand efforts without recognition.

A few words of compassion can save a life, open a door and impede a mistake. They can give relief, courage to live and many more things you cannot imagine or perceive.

You never know how much someone needs to hear them from your lips...

I remember many tragic moments in my life and a few words that prevented me from falling. They were pure support.

I remember a few words someone told me before my departure that stayed with me during the entire trip. Simple statements and simple conclusions that helped me immensely while they seemed to be so obvious...

I also remember powerful words in very serious moments. Words that made me accept a challenge, comprehend an enigma, acquire courage and decide to proceed. Words that made me indeed think and realize. I felt wise!

A few sensitive words opened my heart. A few beautiful words made me cry.

Of course you can speak and say something good. It doesn't need to be very important or reflect the level of your intelligence and culture. It only needs to be full of humanity and compassion-simple but essential!

Don't be a wall; don't be a piece of ice. Don't be like all the indifferent and impolite people who cannot afford to spend even a little of their time.

Be nice. Stay for a while.

Be a friend, give a handshake, give a smile!

Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung's research in the unknown region of the human psychic sphere.

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One Magic al Tip to Transform Your Daily Dialogue: Positive Verbal Language Makes All the Difference

By Asma Fayyad

Most of us are victims of negative emotions and that is certainly reflected on our daily communications, the verbal and the non verbal. Every morning we fall prey to food allergies, nightmares, sleeping disorders, pains and aches of the previous night. You see the world through rusty and hazy goggles; you wonder "when will I ever feel better about my life".

You start shouting at your husband, children and start posing a cinched nose towards everyone. You forcibly draw a smile on your face and start pretending that you are getting through the day just fine.

That is when you are in great danger of committing verbal abuse. You will tend to abuse your own verbal skills. Most people mistake being direct and honest with being negative and rude. You can always say the truth in a better way.

A simple example comes from your daily life. Let's assume that you want your husband to place his tooth brush back on the holder, what would you normally say? "Honey, please don't leave your tooth brush on the sink?" or "why do you always leave your tooth brush on the sink, can't you simply put it back on the holder?"

The minute you start your word with “DON'T” the person will stop listening to you, no matter how useful your feedback is.

Instead say something like "it would be a lot more hygienic if you kept your tooth brush away from the sink, it gets messy there. There is a holder on the shelf, you can put it there once you are done brushing"

This will sure take longer to say but note that there is not a single negative word in the sentence. The tip for today is

Start your talk with a positive word and lead your listener to understand rather than command him/her to do something.

Watching your mouth, minding your language not only means to avoid abusive words and expressions, it means "STOP, THINK, CHOOSE, then SHOOT" you hit your target better this way.

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